Tuesday, December 29, 2015

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QUOTE OF THE DAY

“Yeast Infection” — The name of Kesha’s new band. Doctors suggest listening with some yogurt. 

NO CHARGES

THE STORY 

Yesterday, a grand jury said ‘nah’ to bringing charges against two police officers involved in the shooting death of 12-year-old Tamir Rice. 

REMIND ME. 

Last year, Rice, who is black, was shot and killed by a white police officer in Cleveland, OH. This happened after two officers responded to a 911 call about a man holding what appeared to be a gun. Turns out, Rice was actually a 12-year-old boy holding a pellet gun. The officers mistook the pellet gun for the real thing, and one of them shot Rice. 

SO WHY NO CHARGES? 

The grand jury says it decided not to indict the officers partly because they had no way of knowing the gun was a fake. It was missing an orange tip that was supposed to indicate that it wasn’t an actual gun and the 911 dispatcher never gave the officers a heads up that the gun could be fake. Yesterday, Rice’s family condemned the decision, but asked people to express themselves “peacefully and democratically.” That might be because massive protests broke out after the decisions not to indict officers in the shooting deaths of Michael Brown in Ferguson, MO and  Eric Garner in NYC.

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Yesterday’s decision closes a chapter on a case that added to national uproar over racial discrimination and excessive use of force in local PDs.

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WHAT TO SAY WHEN YOU FINALLY CATCH YOUR ROOMMATE EATING YOUR LEFTOVERS...

Gotcha. Last night, the so-called ‘affluenza teen’ Ethan Couch and his mom were arrested in Mexico . Two years ago, the Texas teenager killed four people in a drunk driving crash. His lawyers used “affluenza” as a defense, saying the 16-year-old was a rich kid who never had limits set for him. Everyone said ‘really??’ and he was sentenced to probation. Couch and his mom went missing earlier this month, and then last night, police found them near a Mexican resort. No word on why they were fleeing, but Couch could now face up to 10 years in prison for violating his probation.

WHAT TO SAY WHEN YOUR EX APOLOGIZES TWO YEARS AFTER YOU BREAK UP…

Overdue, but thanks. Yesterday, Japan and South Korea played nice and reached a deal on their decades-long dispute about “comfort women .” Comfort women: tens of thousands of mostly Korean women who served as sex slaves for Japanese troops before and during WWII. South Korea has always asked Japan for an apology and compensation for the not-so-comforting practice, but the two countries have never been able to agree on anything. Until yesterday, when the Japanese government said it would give $8.3 million to a foundation that will offer things like medical care to surviving comfort women. But a lot of South Koreans are saying ‘too little too late,’ and that these women deserve more. The agreement is a big deal for the US, who’s hoping a closer friendship between South Korea and Japan means a stronger group of allies for the US in Asia.

WHAT TO SAY WHEN YOUR BOSS ASKS YOU TO LEAD THE MONTHLY TEAM BRAINSTORM…

Go time. Yesterday, Iran decided it was go time to put tons of enriched uranium  on a ship and send it off to Russia. Enriched uranium is a key ingredient in the recipe to create a nuclear weapon. You might remember that time last summer when Iran and a group of world powers reached a deal to limit Iran’s nuclear program in exchange for lifting harsh economic sanctions on the country. Part of the deal meant Iran had to get rid of this enriched uranium. So yesterday’s shipment means a global dream is becoming a reality. Which also means President Obama - who wanted to get the deal implemented before he leaves office - can check something off his New Year’s Resolution list.

WHAT TO SAY AT THE LAST FAMILY DINNER OF VACAY…

Did you hear about Meadowlark Lemon? The former star of the Harlem Globetrotters - the touring basketball team known for it’s ball-handling tricks - died over the weekend at the age of 83. Lemon played more than 7,500 consecutive games with the Globetrotters and became one of the team’s most popular ballers.

THING TO KNOW

Steven Avery: The subject of a new Netflix documentary series that your friends are binging, called ‘Making a Murderer.’ He was wrongfully convicted for sexual assault and served 18 years in prison. Then he was convicted of murder in a different case and sent back to prison. Spoiler: there are questions over whether or not he actually did it.

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Oh the weather outside is blah. How does a trip to Costa Rica sound? Five nights, dinner, massage, and shopping spree included. Yes please.

 

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Monday, December 28, 2015

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Greenland – The “It” Destination of 2016

Posted: 28 Dec 2015 05:00 AM PST

National Geographic Traveller and Lonely Planet have it on their top destination lists for 2016. And Dave and Deb of ThePlanetD have been touting Greenland as the hot “it” destination for two years now. Glad you could join us LP and NatGeo! Yes, we are ahead of the curve when it comes to travel trends. (Insert smiley face here) But in all seriousness, we’ve been in love with Greenland since visiting with Quark Expeditions in 2013.

Iceberg and Tundra

Massive Iceberg overlooking the Arctic Tundra

Greenland is that destination that makes us feel excited about travel. Very few tourists visit the country, Greenlanders still cling to their ancient culture, and the mountainous scenery and polar ice-cap is awe-inspiring. I can still picture the massive icebergs dwarfing our ship as we looked on from our kayaks while exploring an uncharted fjord.

Destination Greenland

Kayaking in through the Incredible Greenland Scenery

Greenland – The Hottest “It” Destination

Greenland is one of those places where people’s eyes widen when you mention you’ve been there. What’s it like? They ask. Is it similar to Iceland? We always say, “A little, but not really.”

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Greenland settlement

Compared to Iceland, Greenland is bigger, bolder, and untamed. There are no roads connecting villages. You either must travel it by plane or on ship. A small expedition ship is the way we travelled down the West Coast along the South Shore and over to the East. Our ship’s captain navigated through fields of ice taking our small group of 50 passengers deep into fjords to view enormous glaciers and giant icebergs.

Destination Greenland

Incredible Greenland Ice

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Each day was spent hiking along the Arctic Tundra, exploring smaller inlets by zodiac, and kayaking to the hardest to reach places. At night we’d watch the Northern Lights dance in the sky as we sat on lounge chairs bundled up in our warm parkas. Greenland leaves a lasting impression.

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Dave and Deb enjoying the Northern Lights

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There are shorter 10 day trips for those who don’t have a lot of time where they can fly North and South to trips lasting up to 21 days where you can really delve into the magnificent destination. Greenland offers you the chance to spy polar bears, musk oxen, and whales. You can hike on the tundra, climb mountains, or take a more relaxed cruise to watch from zodiacs and the ship’s deck.

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Hiking on the Arctic Tundra

Greenland is the final frontier, and Quark is making it easier for anyone to visit. Greenland is still one of the most isolated regions in the world making independent travel difficult. But this also makes it one of the most interesting and untouched regions of the globe.

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Our ship in Greenland

The smaller expedition ships led by Quark allow passengers access to remote villages where you can meet the local Inuit and learn about their fascinating culture. Many villages see very few people each year and they look forward to ships coming in. They allow you into their homes, welcome you to their community, and even play a game or two with you.

Greenland soccer match

Playing a game of soccer with the locals

There are so many things to do on a Greenland tour. Our days were never boring. In fact, they were a bit tiring. But as we say, you can sleep when the trip is done. If you want to learn more about what it’s like on a Quark Expeditions trip to Greenland, enjoy our video below.

Greenland, a Day in the Life

This post is in partnership with Quark Expeditions. All opinions are our own. For more information on polar travels visit the Quark Expeditions Website

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QUOTE OF THE DAY

“‘Star Wars’ continues to be a bright, shining beacon of light” – A movie industry analyst getting emo about “Star Wars” making $1 billion at the box office. The Force is still strong with that one.

FTW?

THE STORY 

There might be some good news in the fight against ISIS in Iraq. Finally.

WHAT’S THAT?

Earlier this year, ISIS said ‘mine’ to Ramadi. Hint: a key city in Iraq just 60 miles from Baghdad. This led US Defense Sec. Ash Carter to question whether Iraqi troops had their head in the game. Now, it’s looking like they’re very much back in it. Yesterday, Iraqi troops – with some airstrike help from the US-led coalition –  pushed ISIS fighters out of Ramadi . Iraqi officials say it could be a couple of days before they can officially call it, but things are looking good.

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This could be the first big win for Iraq and the US-led coalition since ISIS went on an epic land-grabbing spree last year. Next up: Mosul. Aka Iraq’s second-largest city and ISIS HQ in the country. #Resolutions

 

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WHAT PEOPLE ARE TALKING ABOUT...

Chicago. Over the weekend, two black people were shot and killed by police , who were responding to a call about a domestic disturbance. Police were called in after 19-year-old Quintonio LeGrier reportedly threatened his dad with a baseball bat. LeGrier was shot and killed by police, and there have been questions over whether he suffered from mental illness. The other victim – 55-year-old Bettie Jones – was shot accidentally. This comes after video was recently released of black teen Laquan McDonald being fatally shot 16 times by Chicago police last year. That sparked protests in the city, leading the police chief to resign. Meanwhile, the Justice Department’s opened up an investigation into the Chicago PD’s use of force. Windy City woes.

WHAT TO SAY WHEN IT DRIZZLES ON YOUR BEACH VACATION...

Not complaining. Since late last week, parts of the Midwest and South have been hit hard by heavy rains, flash floods, and tornadoes. Dozens of people have been killed, including 11 people in Dallas who died when the city was hit by a group of tornadoes over the weekend. As if things haven’t been bad enough, a huge snowstorm is now moving through Texas, New Mexico, and Oklahoma. Meanwhile, parts of the UK were hit by serious flooding over the weekend. Thousands of people are being evacuated with more heavy rains expected this week. Officials say El Nino’s partly to blame for all the crazy, and this kind of weather could keep up for the next few months. Big El No-no. 

WHAT TO SAY WHEN YOUR FRIEND CANCELS PLANS WITH ‘I’M NOT FEELING WELL’...

Calling your bluff. So is Peyton Manning. Over the weekend, Al Jazeera released an undercover report claiming that several big-time athletes doped, including the injured Denver Broncos QB. To which Manning said ‘liar, liar, credibility on fire.’ The report — subtly titled “The Dark Side” — claims that human growth hormone was sent to Manning’s wife while he was being treated for a neck injury in 2011. Al Jazeera cited its source as a pharmacist at the clinic that allegedly sent the HGH. It looks like that pharmacist might have actually been an unpaid intern. Oops. The former intern has since admitted that his statements were “absolutely false.” Oops he did it again. Manning’s said he’s “disgusted” by the report and is considering suing Al Jazeera. Other athletes mentioned have also deny, deny, denied the allegations. 

WHAT TO SAY WHEN YOU KEEP PUTTING OFF THAT XMAS RETURNS TRIP...

At least people in Kentucky had an excuse. Over the weekend, brawls at one of KY’s largest malls forced the mall and surrounding businesses to shut down. “Brawls” meaning violent fights involving up to 2,000 people somewhere between age 13 and their early 20s. Only minor injuries were reported, and investigators still haven’t figured out what caused the Kentucky fried catfight. Authorities described it as “crazy.” Seems accurate. 

THING TO KNOW

Baby boomer...as in people born around the late 40s to around the early 60s. Your mom. Even though she gets told ‘you two look like sisters’ on the reg. 

Gen X...as in people born around the 60s to around the early 80s. Think your cousin with young kids. 

Millennial...as in people born around the 80s to around the early 2000s who get eye-rolls for checking Instagram during family dinner. Probably you. 

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Saturday, December 26, 2015

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How Travel Got Me to Finally Let go of Being a Control Freak

Posted: 26 Dec 2015 02:17 AM PST

I've had meltdowns at the top of the Eiffel Tower. Conniption fits in the snowy streets of Amsterdam. Battles of will with my husband in international airports.

Hello, my name is Susan, and I used to be a terrible traveler.

It all begins with my incessant need to have everything go my way. Control freak. Type A. Anal. Whatever you want to call it, that was how I lived for most of my life. Then I started traveling, and those skills really came in handy, or so I thought. I'd spend weeks researching every place I wanted my family to go, using Google Earth to check out the neighborhood we would stay in, and making spreadsheets to organize all my OCD information.

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The problem was, once we got there, nothing went the way I'd planned. Our delayed flight would cause us to miss our next flight at the layover. We'd get lost on our way to one of my meticulously-planned activities. I'd get sick as a dog from eating snails in Barcelona and spend the night in a dehydrated fugue, ready to curl up and die.

I should have gotten the memo years ago. After dating only three months, my then-boyfriend-now-husband threatened to leave me in Paris because I was whining so much. I can't remember what I was peeved at specifically, but it was probably something like my wanting him to visit yet another long-dead author's home and him (logically) refusing.

The Turning Point

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It wasn't until I got serious about travel writing that I knew I had to change how I traveled. I was making the people around me miserable with my need to control every situation, and I wasn't any happier. If I wanted to build a career around travel, I'd have to reduce the stress it was causing.

Earlier this year, we started planning a 5-week trip to Provence. My husband already knew what to expect. We'd worked out a metaphor to help me deal with my need to control, and he used it then:

"So…you ready to let me drive this trip?"

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Provence Changed it all

Letting me drive was our code for me to metaphorically hand over the keys and sit in the passenger seat quietly while he navigated us through airports, customs, and general travel. Whenever I was able to hand over those invisible keys, I found myself enjoying travel more. Still, it took this conversation to really shake me into changing.

Me: "Yea, sure, that's fine. Totally cool."

My 10-year-old son chimed in, "You don't want it to be like the time you cried at the Eiffel Tower, Mama."

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And suddenly, I saw myself through their eyes. Fierce. Angry. Unable to let serendipity just wash over me and enjoy the experience. I didn't want my son growing up regretting every trip he took with me, and I wanted there to be many trips. I didn't want my husband to leave the hotel room under the guise of buying groceries just to get away from my ranting. I wanted to be a person who was pleasant to travel with.

In addition to being a control freak, I'm also willful. So as soon as I decided I needed to make some serious changes in how I traveled, I set to work on them. I named my controlling self Uptight Ursula. I spent time understanding what motivated her, and why she felt like she needed to have things go her way. I understood I didn't need her, and in fact, would be happier without her. So I locked her up and threw away the key. Sure, it was a silly visualizing exercise, but it worked.

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As anyone knows, changing ingrained habits (especially bad ones) is pretty challenging, so I won't say that I was an angel in Provence. But it was a lot more fun.

When we got lost, I opened my eyes to see where we ended up. It was often better than where we'd planned to go. When I was hungry, I let my husband choose the restaurant. I'd ask my son what he wanted to do. We all got to experience the Provence we were interested in, and we shared those experiences.

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I didn't get a medal for my good behavior from my family when we got home, but the real reward was finally letting go and finding a way to let travel happen to me, rather than molding it to fit what I wanted.

I now understand travel better. The reason I travel is to experience the unfamiliar. Yes, it's uncomfortable, but if I wanted comfort, I could stay home and save a hell of a lot of money. Travel requires being flexible and open to whatever comes, and I finally get that. When I try to control my experience, I limit it, and I don't see a destination for what it is: a magical slice of life in another place.

About the Author

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When Susan Payton isn’t running her marketing company, she’s traveling and writing about it on The Unexplorer. She’s written several books (business, as well as travel) and has been published on Forbes, Mashable and other sites. Follow her on Twitter: @unxplorer, Instagram: @unxplorer, or Facebook.

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